Summer Loving Tour: The Summer of No Regrets by Katherine Grace Bond

As part of Sourcebooks’ Summer Lovin’ Blog Tour, I have Katherine Grace Bond, author of The Summer of No Regrets here to discuss finding herself. It’s such a fun post, hope you all enjoy! Before that little goodie though, here are my thoughts on her book!

This was the summer that would change my life.

No more being what everyone expected. No more doing what everyone else wanted.

So when Luke came into my life, I decided to keep him a secret. Maybe he as a dead–ringer for notorious Hollywood bad boy Trent Yves. And it was possible that everything he told me was a lie. And yes, I was probably asking for trouble. But all I saw was Luke—sweet, funny, caring—someone who would let me be the real me.

But which was the real him?

When I read the premise behind The Summer of No Regrets I was expecting a cute little fluffy contemporary. The cover didn’t improve that any.  it was that but it’s also the sort of book that should top your “to reads” list. I say this so often I’m fearing it’s becoming cliche, but there was a depth to this book that I didn’t expect.

Brigitta’s grandparents passed away and since then she’s been somewhat misplaced. She has a blog in which she talks about her life and does a bit of celebrity gushing/commentary. (That is reason enough for me to pick this title up! Anything with a blogger and I’m there.) When a celebrity bad-boy lookalike shows up living next door, Brigitta tries to keep her distance. Then in a rare cougar attack, she saves his life and they slowly become friends. The Summer of No Regrets follows Brigitta as she matures and becomes one with herself.

I love Luke, he’s sweet and thoughtful. But he’s so sketchy. If I was interested in a guy who disappeared often with little to no excuse, I’d lose interest pretty quick. I don’t care how hot he is. I also love that there is a bit of a “nature” lesson thrown in. That gives the book a few extra layers that made it completely enjoyable for me.

The Summer of No Regrets went on sale yesterday, so be sure and check it out!

I received my copy courtesy of the publisher in exchange for my honest opinion.

Finding the Real Me

“Sometimes I feel, as far as social groups are concerned, that I’m sort of a minor hello and goodbye part.”  – Diary, 3-29-77

As teens read THE SUMMER OF NO REGRETS, I’ve been reading my teenage diary. REALLY embarrassing, but it has to be done. How else will I know whether I’ve actually grown up?

I shopped a lot, but thought I looked terrible in the “in” clothes (which included something called “gauchos”.) I went to a folk dance convention, was dumped by my best friend, fought with my mother. My dad yelled a lot. I almost got to be an exchange student in France. I asked a boy named Lyle for his picture every single week.

What strikes me, as I read these awkward entries, is that I expected other people to tell me who I was.

That was the year I followed puppy-like after friends who treated me shoddily, hoping I’d become worthy.

I glowed under the praise of teachers and knew I was smart.

I longed to shake off my parents’ overprotectiveness so I’d be mature.

I was certain my life would be “so great” if only fill in boy’s name here liked me. Then I’d be pretty.

Once, when a brand new song came on the radio, my best friend asked, mid-song, whether I liked it.

“Do you like it?” I asked.

“I’m not going to tell you,” she replied, and I faced the ultimate dilemma: Should I love it? Should I hate it? I couldn’t know until I got her opinion; I didn’t have one of my own. The still, small voice inside me had gone missing.
Though Brigitta in THE SUMMER OF NO REGRETS, hides the “real she,” she’s still more self-possessed than I was. But I did eventually find the “real Katherine,” and I’ve learned a few things about going from fake to real.

  • Create, create, create: write, sing, sculpt, build. What you create is uniquely yours. The more you create, the more comfortable you become in your own skin.
  • Pay attention to your body. That feeling in the pit of your stomach may be telling you to get out of a bad situation. That exhilaration in your lungs may be telling you, “I should come here more often.” Your body knows your likes and dislikes—usually better than your friends do.
  • Love boldly. Notice what you care about and act on it. Homeless kids? Volunteer at the shelter. Poetry slams? Start an open mic. Your grandmother? Pick up the phone.
  • Be an encourager. I’m more myself when I encourage—“calling out” someone’s gift can be life-changing. One of my sweeter diary entries read, “Mary wrote my poem on the front of her notebook. She said, ‘Don’t erase it! I think it’s so beautiful.’” Mary, now a librarian, always encouraged my writing. Now, through TEENWrite, I get to do the same.

And as it turns out, I’m more than a hello and goodbye part. And so are you.

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Comments

  1. kimba88 says:

    Great review..i am going to grab this one for my daughters.

  2. Oh gosh!! I should also read again my Diary… gosh I know that I wrote a loooootttt of embarassing things there! But, I guess it would be time again to read it – would be fun as long is no one else would read!

    • Amanda says:

      When I read the post I dug out mine. Hahaha, mine was pretty boring. I didn’t write in it much as a teen (or earlier). My little brother was always reading it.

  3. Oh, I love this review! I never kept a diary, and when I did, I rarely put anything substantial in it. My parents were always reading it.

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